Hi there! So I searched the "gold star family" tag and saw your post you put up here a year ago.. I just wanted to say that I lost my brother due to war and he was 19 years old too. His name was Chris and he is missed every day.. Just letting you know, you're not alone and everyone that has lost someone in their family understands what you're going through- you just have to find them :) Hoping you are well.
Whoever you are, I am so very sorry for the loss of your brother and if you ever need a listening ear feel free to message me anytime. You’re right, people who have been in our situation need to stick together. <3 <3